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reinvention RE-INVENT YOURSELF FOR 2022

this post was inspired by this tiktok: here

Tomorrow is January 1st, so today I’m going to finalize my vision board and get my shit together. Before I can do that, though—and before we even begin talking about the big “reinvention”—I have some more pressing concerns: like where the hell do I begin!

First thing first. Realize. You have to realize that you have the power to change anything. it is never too late to change your reality. don’t think you’re too “old” and that its late for you. people are in their 40s, 50s, and 60s trying to find themselves and their true identities and trying out new hobbies! this idea that life ends when you’re 30 or whatever is such bullshit. you have so much time to change anything you want and nothing is impossible. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.

once you realise that, you can conquer anything. your problems are so small compared to you, because you’re magnificent. in this time of age we do not stop to congratulate ourselves because we are always comparing ourselves to other peoples lives on social media, or our parents are comparing us to other peoples kids. take time to CONGRATULATE YOURSELF for atleast wanting to try doing better for yourself. thats already an achievement and a step closer to achieving your dream life. some of you guys have been through hell and back, yet you’re still here. just congratulate yourself on that, because thats amazing. really.

now..lets start a funeral.

write down or take mental note of all your “bad habits” than can include something simple as procrastinating or idk nail biting. GET RID OF THEM. DECLARE THIS NOW that you will stop doing those habits, these bad habits do not benefit you. now, its pretty easy to cling back onto these “bad habits” so dont even worry about it. if you do it again do not belittle yourself, do not beat yourself up about it omg. literally dont you’re still amazing and hey..maybe you won’t completely get rid of them so start minimising how much you do those so-called bad habits

secondly, the mental glow up

mental glowups are also important aswell as physical glowups. mental glowups really do wonders and can impact your physical appearance!

• don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake.

i feel like its so normal for us to do this and i think if you were in a household that was not particularly great at emotional wellbeing you would struggle whenever you make mistake cus you would beat yourself up about it, its a tactic we’ve learned to do and its not a very good one.

• treat yourself with kindness.

how you treat a little child under your care, treat your mind and yourself as so. when you feel under pressure, when you feel caught up with everything. take it slow. and realise, you’re amazing and you can get through any obstacle.

• treat yourself like a QUEEN!

honestly, we should all start treating ourselves like the beautiful people we are?? like yeah i woke up messy hair and all but i am still beautiful. i am still shockingly pretty and i rock any hairdo.

• prioritise yourself. stop prioritising others.

now dont get me wrong, when the moment is right you can put others before yourself..BUT NOT ALL THE DAMN TIME! treat yourself, love yourself and prioritise yourself.

thirdly, the PHYSICAL GLOWUP!

now whatever you want to look like, visualise, script, command your subconscious or affirm that what you look like is IN YOUR REALITY! and nothing can stop that, literally nothing can. and in the meantime literally just love yourself, congratulate yourself..i mean your physical glowup is here and you look absolutely stunning.

take plenty of selfies cus you’re beautiful.

go outside and hang out with friends PLEASE DO NOT PUT A HAULT ON YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR MANIFESTATIONS.

pretend you’re a celebrity on vogue doing your routine in the bathroom. literally have fun, do hairstyles you wanna try, spend a lil bit of money on skin care + makeup.

NOW..COMBINE EVERYTHING IVE JUST SAID.

okay, now combine everything and just do it, dont be scared. why are you scared? you still have plenty of time to make mistakes and try again, and get your dream life, you still have time to love yourself and gain knowledge of YOU and stuff you like. now..you dont need the “perfect life” i feel like that is being so targeted towards young people nowadays searching for that “perfect life” that builds up so much more pressure, tbh. all you need is stability. become stable and consistent in habits, relationships, your body and your mind. (if u want, u can obvi have ur perfect life hun)

First things first: YOU CAN CHANGE ANYTHING. You have the power to create a new reality for yourself, no matter how old you are. It’s never too late to start over and explore something new. You don’t have to be in your 20s for that to happen, either! People are in their 40s, 50s, and 60s trying to find themselves and their true identities and trying out new hobbies! This idea that life ends when you’re 30 or whatever is such bullshit.

There’s so much time for you to change anything that you want; nothing is impossible! NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. once you realize this, you can conquer anything—your problems are small compared with your magnificence.

In this time of fast-paced living, we do not stop to congratulate ourselves for having accomplished something because we’re always comparing our success to others’. Take some time today—whether it’s a minute or an hour—to appreciate yourself.

No matter how difficult things might be now, you’re still one step closer to your dream life. Some of you guys have been through hell and back; however, it hasn’t stopped you from staying on this journey with me! Congratulations on that—it’s amazing.

We’ve all been through some shit, but we’re still here. When I think about what I’ve gone through—the abuse, the trauma, the bad relationships and friendships—I can’t believe that I’m still here! Still, it’s not easy to get through all of that. I don’t think many people can say they’ve gone through what you guys have and still made it out alive. For that, I’m extremely proud of you! Keep doing what you’re doing because it’s working; just remember to be patient with yourself along the way.